Tuesday, June 04, 2024

 

The Fisherman Who Taught Mindfulness




Have you ever had a moment that made you rethink everything you thought you knew about a subject? That happened to me after a hiking trip in New Brunswick, Canada. As we drove back, a friend and I spotted a Buddhist center with a sign inviting the public to a mindfulness practice that afternoon. Intrigued, we decided to stop in.

Inside, we joined a circle of people seated on mats. Most looked like seasoned practitioners, comfortably cross-legged, radiating calm and spiritual presence. Among them, however, was a man who stood out. Dressed in loose jeans, a red and black checkered fleece sweater, and an old, beloved baseball cap, he seemed out of place. Yet, his kind eyes and gentle smile hinted at a serene inner peace.

The monk led us through a mindfulness technique, then invited everyone to share their experiences. Many spoke of decades of daily practice, inspiring us with their dedication. Then, it was the turn of the man in the baseball cap. Shifting slightly to find a more comfortable position, he looked down and smiled, his eyes crinkling with a lifetime of laughter.

He then looked up and said simply, "This is my first time at a Buddhist temple. I've never studied or heard much about mindfulness or meditation. To be honest, I've never meditated before and don't really understand a lot of what many of you here have talked about. But it sounds a little like how I feel when I'm fishing. When I go out on my boat in the early morning, listening to the waves lapping at the side of the boat, the frogs croaking, and settle in for the morning with my fishing line, I feel a deep calmness come over me, a real peacefulness. I don't think about anything, not the past, not the future. I have no thoughts that I am aware of, I simply feel at peace and am noticing the sounds of nature and how good I feel in my body as everything relaxes. I don't know if fishing is anything like meditating or mindfulness, but this is the closest experience I can think of that sounds anything like what you all have been describing."

His words, so genuine and humble, had a deep effect on me. Without any intention of teaching or humbling anyone, he embodied the essence of mindfulness through his everyday life. In his innocence and authenticity, he became our teacher that day.

This unexpected lesson reminded me that mindfulness isn't confined to formal practices or seasoned practitioners. Sometimes, the most profound insights come from the simplest moments and the humblest individuals.

That fisherman, with his childlike curiosity and deep sense of presence, exemplified the very peace we all seek.

Talk about humility—he was a living, breathing example of mindfulness without even realizing it. Next time you seek mindfulness, remember: it might just be in the quiet simplicity of your own everyday experiences.

There are many ways to create inner calm in ourselves; for myself, taking walks in the forest or by the water, gardening, or sitting outside in nature listening to the birds and the wind, have a profoundly soothing effect on my system.

How have you found deep calm and inner peace?πŸŒΏπŸ’«

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